Cliché Dialogues

We always follow cliché dialogues and expect a change in our life. For ex: - “No expectations – Happy life”. I always see this line as status on facebook, whats app, etc. But like I said before, it’s good that we should not expect from all the people around us, but it’s impossible to not expect anything from the people whom we are close to. Deep down we expect things from people and want that they should fulfill our expectations. This is just an example of one of the cliché dialogues that people actually pretend to follow or they think that they are following but sadly they are not.

With the rise of the digital platform and the need to get positivity, pick up a dialogue that keeps on creating buzz; people post statuses regarding that, websites keep on circulating that that ultimately becomes cliché but then it again comes in a loop since neophytes start following that.  

Sometimes people put those positive and bring-change-in-our-life statements (regarding relationships, success, career, etc) as statuses on various social platforms to show their world that how mature they are and how brilliantly they are passing on wisdom to other people despite the fact that those dialogues have actually become cliché and deep down people don’t follow that.

I don’t know when people start listening to their heart and follow a pragmatic approach instead of those cliché dialogues that use as the marketing gimmick. 

The Birth (III)

She read a book

It was awe-inspiring.

It changed her psyche

She got determined.

And then

The turning point came in her life.

She found books

As a ‘boon companion’

And God

As an ‘omnipresent friend’.

With the help of these two

She turned her negative factors

Into positive ones,

And

Her destiny got changed.

Now she found herself

As a,

Sanguine and a confident woman.

She is innocent, she is cute

Her determination and upbeat attitude

Made her astute.

For her,

Life is a precious thing

That God has given us

The more we will curse it

The more we will be in trouble.

On a contrary,

The more we will relish

The subtle moments of life

The more beautiful

It will seem to be.

VICENARIAN

We all are ‘Vicenarian’ now. We all need to focus on our career very diligently. The age of 20-25 years, these are very crucial years in our life. Because now we are mature, we have to work hard to achieve our aims. Every day we wake up and start thinking about what we want to do. What are the targets that have been set by us that we have to accomplish today?  Every day we are working on it and every day our mind gives new ideas that there is something else also that we can do. But we are ignoring it and then we feel frustrated. Undoubtedly, most of the times we achieve our targets, but still we are left with some.  I know when we have our exams, we need to stop doing other things and should rigorously study for our exams because our future is depending on that. That’s why every day we start to do the planning; we set our target that we need to achieve.

BUT HANG ON!

I talked to so many people who want to achieve so many things in their life, they are working on it but still sometimes they get frustrated like us. Despite achieving our aim, we have so many problems that we are facing it; there are so many distractions which are impeding in our work and we are getting nothing in our hand. Why? Have we ever thought about it?

We are in an age where we need to achieve so many things, but at the same time we are really confused and are in a perplexing situation. We are avoiding those subtle and convivial moments that we need to enjoy.  We are thinking that if we will not go to work diligently than we will not going to have our bright future. We think that we are left with our whole life; we will enjoy our life later. But can we enjoy it? Instead of enjoying we will be having more responsibilities and we will indulge in that.

Life is simple and it says whatever your heart says just do that and relish each and every moment of your life. So, if we are getting an opportunity to spend time with our friends, spend time with ourselves, with our family, to enjoy our hobby, just do that. We need to be loyal towards our targets, but we also know that if we will not going to enjoy those things we will be frustrated. These moments will never going to come back. We are not ‘Tricenarian ‘where we need to sacrifice the things, where we need to take lots of pressure. It is good to be focused in life, but sometimes if we are getting an opportunity to enjoy something we should do that.

T.T. RANGARAJAN said- ‘Today is a providential gift. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. So, draw a line in your past, believe yesterday was over yesterday, and press your speed button into your future. Don’t waste your today and do something productive. Value ‘Today’ and make it valuable.’

‘Life needn’t to be mundane. Life needn’t to be boring. Life needn’t be a year’s experience repeated ‘n’ times. Life needn’t be an imposition. Life needn’t be a life imprisonment. There’s more to life than existing.’

So, if we want to have better results then let’s do something productive. Instead of regretting on things that we did wrong, instead of regretting on things that we have not achieved, let’s satisfy ourselves by achieving our targets, but if we don’t want to lose something, if we don’t want to get frustrated, then spend some moments with ourselves, with our hobby etc. So what, that we need to be focused. Still, let’s flourish our innocence and stupidity everywhere. Let’s do something better and productive happily. Let’s make ‘VICENARIAN’ more happening and convivial.